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My favorite time is in time’s other side, its other identity, the kind that collapses and sometimes reappears, and sometimes doesn’t. The one that looks like marshmallows, pomegranates, and stranger things, before returning to its kind of abstraction… Today I see eternity everywhere. I had yesterday an empty glass of champagne on the table, and it looked both infinite and eternal.
⁓ Etel Adnan

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As I write this article, I think of Time — that element that passes like sand through my mind’s fingers, or lingers in the pages of my journal. This year is almost ending, and on its holiday-festooned last legs follow the promising steps of the new one.


And thinking about my own time leads me to ponder on the value of self-reflection — how it has changed me in the most subtle and obvious of ways. I have filled pages upon pages of words, harnessing my emotions and innermost thoughts into inky marks, my fountain pen oftentimes flying over the paper, at other moments pausing as I try to capture a memory as clearly as I can.


There have been other times too, when I forgo writing about an experience, a thought, an emotion, and just let it sink into my subconscious. I know that after a while, I will take up that pen and weave another inky thread into my life’s story once again.

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Transitions and the Value of Self-Reflection

The ending of one year to the beginning of a new one is a transition deeply rooted in our human cognition, emotion, and cultural symbolism. This period marks a symbolic threshold, offering a psychological fresh start and an opportunity for renewal. The end of a year provides a natural point of closure. We have a psychological tendency to seek this — the conclusion of a calendar year serves as a tangible milestone, allowing us to mentally mark that chapter as the past and prepare for a new beginning.


The turn of the year prompts us to reflect on our experiences, achievements, and challenges. This reflective process is essential for mental well-being, as it provides a structured opportunity to assess personal growth, learn from our past experiences, and set new goals for ourselves. This transition likewise creates psychological distance from our past mistakes and setbacks. This temporal separation can alleviate guilt and regret, encouraging a mindset of forgiveness and a renewed focus on future possibilities.


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Self-reflection is a powerful practice that adds immense value to personal development and well-being. It serves as a mirror to our thoughts, actions, and emotions, offering a deep understanding of ourselves. Through it, we gain insights into our strengths, weaknesses, and motivations, all of which foster self-discovery.


The whole process is one of self-awareness. It facilitates learning from our experiences, enabling us to extract meaningful lessons from successes and challenges alike. It provides a framework for setting and refining goals, aligning actions with values, and identifying areas for improvement. This heightened, personal awareness not only enhances decision-making and problem-solving but also promotes a greater sense of authenticity and purpose in life.


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Moreover, self-reflection contributes to emotional intelligence by fostering a deeper understanding of one's emotions and their impact on behavior. It promotes mindfulness, encouraging us to live in the present moment and appreciate the journey of personal growth. Essentially, the value of self-reflection lies in its ability to empower us to lead more intentional, fulfilling lives by continuously evolving and aligning with our truest selves.


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Guides for the Year’s End

One of the most useful tools for self-reflection is journaling. And being fountain pen enthusiasts, we already have the writing instruments and accessories at hand to help us with our process. As the year draws to a close, it is an opportune time for self-reflection. Taking a moment to introspect can provide us valuable insights into personal growth, accomplishments, and areas for improvement. Here are some self-reflection questions to consider as you bid farewell to the ending year. —


Achievements and Milestones – Recall your accomplishments throughout the year. What goals did you set, and which ones did you achieve? Celebrate your successes, no matter how small, and recognize the effort you invested in reaching those milestones.


Challenges and Lessons – Consider the challenges you faced. What difficulties did you encounter, and how did you overcome them? Reflect on the lessons learned from these experiences, as overcoming obstacles often brings profound personal development.


Personal Growth – In what ways have you grown as an individual? Reflect on the skills you've developed, the knowledge you've gained, and the personal insights you've acquired. Growth is not always tangible, so consider both internal and external transformations.


Relationships – Assess your relationships with family, friends, and colleagues. Have they evolved positively, or have there been challenges? How have your connections with others contributed to your overall well-being and personal development?


Health and Well-being – Consider your physical and mental well-being. Have you prioritized self-care and taken steps toward a healthier lifestyle? Reflect on the habits that have positively or negatively impacted your overall well-being.


Purpose and Passion – Reflect on whether your actions align with your values, purpose, and passions. Are you engaged in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment? Consider whether any adjustments are needed to align your actions more closely with your true self.


Time Management – Evaluate how you utilized your time. Did you allocate time to activities that align with your priorities and goals? Identify areas where time management could be improved to enhance productivity and work-life balance.


Gratitude – Take a moment to express gratitude. What are you thankful for from this year? Recognizing the positive aspects of your life can foster a sense of contentment and perspective.


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Guides for the Year Ahead

As we stand on the threshold of a new year, it is a perfect moment to engage in mindful self-reflection. This exercise can illuminate the path forward, inspiring personal growth and well-being. Here are some questions to guide your introspection as you embark on the journey into the coming year —


Core Values and Intentions – Reexamine your core values. Do your current actions align with these values? What intentions do you want to set for the new year to ensure that your decisions and behaviors reflect your fundamental beliefs?


Personal Growth – Identify areas for personal growth. In what ways do you aspire to develop as an individual? Whether by acquiring new skills, fostering resilience, or deepening self-awareness, establish clear objectives for your personal evolution.


Relationship Dynamics – Assess your relationships. How can you nurture positive connections and navigate challenges in the coming year? Consider the importance of communication, empathy, and mutual support in maintaining healthy relationships.


Well-being and Self-Care – Prioritize your well-being. What habits contribute to your physical and mental health? How can you integrate self-care practices into your routine to maintain a balanced and sustainable lifestyle?


Professional and Educational Goals – Evaluate your career or educational path. Are you satisfied with your current trajectory, or do adjustments need to be made? Set realistic and achievable goals that align with your professional aspirations.


Mindfulness and Present Moment – Embrace mindfulness. How can you cultivate a greater sense of presence in your daily life? Consider incorporating mindfulness practices to enhance focus, reduce stress, and savor the richness of each moment.


Giving Back and Impact – Reflect on your contributions to the community and the world. How can you make a positive impact in the coming year? Explore opportunities to give back and contribute to causes that resonate with your values.


Adaptability and Resilience – Contemplate your capacity to adapt to change. How can you enhance your resilience in the face of uncertainties? Cultivate a mindset that embraces challenges as opportunities for growth and transformation.


Joy and Fulfillment – Consider what brings you joy and fulfillment. How can you incorporate more of these elements into your life in the new year? Prioritize activities and pursuits that resonate with your passions and contribute to your overall happiness.


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Parting / Welcoming Words

As we stand on the edge of this year, the new year on its way — may the past, present, and future flow through us, each moment of transition perceived as an opportunity to learn, to grow, to transform. And with each step of your journey, may your fountain pens, inks, and journals serve as trusty companions.


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Time is the substance I am made of. Time is a river which sweeps me along, but I am the river; it is a tiger which destroys me, but I am the tiger; it is a fire which consumes me, but I am the fire.
— Jorge Luis Borges

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